I assume you have already heard of this but, there is this thing called a double standard, don't know what that is? According to dictionary.com they define this as: A set of principles establishing different provisions for one group than another; also, specifically, allowing men more sexual freedom than women.
Basically it means that we get the shaft. Women are told to be modest and pure and when we are as carefree as men we are judged. Lame. There is no reason women need to be put in such a box. If males are allowed the freedom to do as they choose why aren't we? I am not saying I want to be like the douche bag guys who bang every chick they can, but why as females are we looked down upon for having just a bit of "guys" fun? Lots of questions, moral of this story is to beware of this inevitable evil trap.
Truthfully there is very little you can do to avoid this problem. If you never go out you are viewed as a prude, if you start to go out and enjoy yourself you can turn into a tramp. There is no real solution to the problem. My advice though: Know who you are and where you stand. It is easy to get caught up in the fun of going out or staying in out of fear of the unknown. Take risks, this is a great time in life to just let your hair down and say who cares?! If you know who you are, what you are comfortable with, and when to say no you will have an amazing time.
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